BDSM : myths and facts
Many people want more than just romantic sex by candlelight. In almost every person lives passion, power, excitement at receiving power or excitement from controlling their partner.
Specially for such people and was created subculture BDSM, which clearly separated sadomasochism from violent actions, turned sexual deviation into a role-playing game of domination and submission. In fact - it is a game of sadomasochism according to certain rules, which are set by the participants themselves.
B - Bondage
"Bondage" here is not only restriction of mobility, but also captivity, subjugation, submission, restriction of freedom, humiliation, disciplinary actions. It is an opportunity to abandon for a while the usual role of a person with great responsibility, to get an opportunity to let himself go, to be in a situation where nothing depends on him. Or on the contrary, to get absolute control over the partner.
D - Discipline and Dominance
Rules are an essential part of BDSM. And when the rule-follower breaks those rules, the rule-maker doles out discipline, often in the form of physical punishment (impact play like whipping or spanking) or psychological punishment (like erotic humiliation).
S - Submission
This is a relationship in which, by prior agreement, there is unequal power between the partners.
The Submissive surrenders control to the Dominant. Submissive always trusts his Master. The Dominant, on the other hand, feels comfortable being in charge, he has the fortitude and natural skills to do so.
M - Masochism
These are practices related solely to the pleasure derived from inflicting or experiencing physical pain. In this way both partners close their needs. At times, partners practising BDSM can even achieve orgasm while receiving pain.
In BDSM there is a huge number of directions and practices, but the essence is the same: one of the partners dominates, and the other submits, and both get sexual and psycho-physiological satisfaction from this happening.
BDSM implements should be of good quality and, most importantly, easily controllable, so that the force of the blow is easy to control even for an inexperienced whipper.
Ideal are Stacks (a flexible leather braided cane with a clapper at the end, which is used to deliver blows. With a stack, you can easily aim and hit the right spot. It is intended more for discipline than for flogging).
Floggers (a whip made of many strips of soft leather, its blows will not be painful and will not leave marks on the skin).
Collars and leashes will help the master to control and even fix his Submissive.
Handcuffs - bracelets on the arms and legs with carabiners, allowing to fix the bottom in different positions. Pay attention to the reliability of the fastenings and the softness of the surface on the inside.
The BDSM bandage fixes the limbs of the Submissive, which ensures absolute submission and obedience of the partner.
Blindfold ensures the ignorance of the partner. Through the blindfold the Submissive demonstrates absolute trust in his Dominant. The blindfold also ensures that the partner's senses are heightened.
There are also nipple clamps, nipple clamps with decorations, anal plugs. Sets of anal plugs with leash, anal plugs with handcuffs, vibrators.
Another important accessory in BDSM is a Female Harness , it creates provocative look. There are so many integrations of this accessory and in everyday life. But the use of the harness in BDSM is quite common. There are also leg harnesses, full body harnesses, open chest harnesses, and male harnesses. A BDSM harness is a type of erotic accessory that is actively used in sexual games.
BDSM practices are a very emotional process and it is based on absolute honesty and absolute trust.
BDSM is about love, BDSM is about confidence. BDSM is one of the many variants of human interaction, which with the right approach can become a way of life, entertainment or a way to diversify intimate life.